I'm a big guy with a small problem: At night when we are all together (feline and human) I create a disturbance.
Purrhaps I'm not used to sleeping on a nice soft bed. You see before I got to my present home (which is quite lovely), I was shuffled around for three years and eventually sent to an animal shelter
When I joined this household, we all started sleeping on the bed together. Oliver (my feline companion) curls up next to Lady (my purrson). But during the night I tend to get on and off the bed and I have stepped on her when I want to get on to the other side. She gets impatient with me - not to mention that she doesn't like being stepped on. So now I'm relegated to the (admittedly large) bathroom.
Other than that I'm a pretty nice guy - clean, cooperative, eager to learn, and I get along with everyone.
Any advice that would help me get used to being on the bed at night without creating a disturbance would be appreciated.
With thanks in advance,